Great Parents' Saturdays. What to do on Parents' Saturdays

During parenting days Orthodox world remembers people who have passed away, close relatives (that’s why the name is “parental”), as well as those who fell on the battlefield. Parental Saturdays in 2018 (Orthodox calendar) also include dates that glorify the martyrs of the faith. No exact dates days of remembrance of the dead, because they all depend on the time when Easter takes place in each year. On Saturday we find peace from the work week, and we can remember our loved ones, distant relatives, and everyone who was dear to us.

Orthodox calendar of parental Saturdays in 2018 for commemorating the departed.

The first memorial day. This is Meat Saturday, or Ecumenical. They remember relatives and close people, usually those who died suddenly. It occurs shortly before Maslenitsa, so on Ecumenical Saturday They also bake pancakes. One pancake is brought to the grave, it is intended for a relative. The next pancake is given as a small gift to children and poor people.

For three parental Saturdays in March 2018, the Orthodox world remembers those people who died observing self-restraint. At this time, reading the sorokousts is not allowed. Parents' Saturdays 2018 before Easter are days during Lent when you can remember your relatives.

This day is named Radonitsa. Is the main memorial Saturday. What date is Big Parents' Saturday in 2018 - April 17.

They remember not only family members, but also those who died during the war.

Saturday – Semik. Semik is not an Orthodox day of remembrance of the dead, but its roots come from folk tradition. Suicides and unbaptized children are commemorated.

It's called Trinity Saturday. Celebrated before the holy holiday of Trinity. Prayers are read for relatives, with the goal that their souls will be calm in the next world, as well as for eternal life departed dear people.

The Day of Remembrance of Orthodox Soldiers originates from the period of the war with Turkey. Memorial Day of John the Baptist, who died defending his faith.

Dimitrievskaya Saturday is a day when, in addition to departed family members, soldiers who died during the Battle of Kulikovo are commemorated.

Why are memorial Saturdays called “parental” Saturdays?

There are two explanations:

  • The first is based on the meaning of the name. At this time, we remember our parents and older relatives who are not with us.
  • Second, according to Christian beliefs, after death a person goes to his ancestors, i.e. parents (according to folk legends).

What is the main memorial day?

The main memorial day is the 9th day after Easter. At this time, in a number of Orthodox countries, the dead are remembered, and traditional ceremonies are also held that are connected with these events. These are predominantly Russian memorial days, since memorial dates according to the Orthodox calendar also contain the names of Russian saints and victorious warriors.

In many cities and regions of Russia, the main memorial Saturday has its own name, namely:

  • Radovnica;
  • Easter of the Dead;
  • Graves.

In general, in every place in Russia Radonitsa can be called differently - but the essence of this day remains the same, veneration and memory of those who have gone to the Kingdom of Heaven.

Orthodox Parents' Saturdays are dedicated to the remembrance of the departed.

Radonitsa - Great Parental Saturday

Why is Radonitsa called exactly that? Main idea– to congratulate the deceased on Easter, which, according to beliefs, also applies to them. One day all the dead will be resurrected, and the Kingdom of Christ will come, and everyone will rejoice - this is how the church officially explains the meaning of the name “Radonitsa” or “Radunitsa”.

A number of rituals or traditions are associated with the main memorial day. So, it is customary to “christen” with the dead Easter eggs– after all, it is believed that the deceased also hear and understand the holiday and want to celebrate it. The eggs turn red. In a number of cities and villages in Russia, it is customary to leave Easter treats - eggs, as well as kutya in the cemetery, or bury them near the house where the deceased once lived.

What to cook

We mentioned that on Radonitsa they eat kutia - this is a cereal dish, which is supplemented with various dried fruits, raisins, nuts or poppy seeds, and consists of wheat and rice cereals. The first thing to start with is this treat if we're talking about about the funeral meal.

  • In other regions of Russia, it is customary to bake pancakes, including on Radonitsa - to treat the aforementioned relatives with a hearty dish;
  • It is not so important whether the pancakes are made of thin dough, or richly decorated and rich in filling - the only important thing is how well they are buttery;
  • According to legends, the dead understand that they are remembered by the amount of butter on their pancakes. This pancake needs to be put in a basket and taken to the cemetery.
  • Treats for the deceased are served with special respect.

Funeral services on Saturdays are also held at home. If during Radonitsa people drink alcohol, then this is done without clinking glasses - since ancient times it has been considered at least bad omen do this. The use of knives and forks is not allowed. Everything that has not been eaten is under no circumstances removed or thrown away - because the leftover food can be fed to the birds, which can symbolize gratitude, respect, and a universal connection with the world.

How to remember the dead correctly

  • Check a relative’s grave, repair it if necessary, paint it, plant flowers;
  • When a person comes to the grave, you need to light a candle and read the words of the prayer;
  • Relatives are remembered from the best side, in a respectful tone;
  • At the end of the holiday, you need to treat yourself to a traditional Easter treat and congratulate all the dear departed on Easter.

Of course, in addition to small rituals and traditions, the semantic center of Radonitsa becomes visiting the dead. Relatives gather together, or visit the graves of the dead one by one (depending on the connections that were maintained by the living and dead people). So, a wife can visit her husband separately, or go to the grave with the whole family. The main thing is to show due attention and respect to the person you are commemorating.

Radonitsa is a bright day, so you need to make sure that at the end of the funeral everyone is in a good mood.

Conclusion

The history of parental Saturdays as a holiday is not the simplest. Before Soviet times (namely, before the revolution of the 17th year), visiting a cemetery as a tribute to the memory of the deceased was considered absolutely normal. During the Soviet period, of course, the attitude towards memorial dates has changed radically. However, even then citizens managed to remember the dead, observing the basic Orthodox traditions, and just to remember once again about their parents and simply dear people who were not with them.

Remembrance of the dead is important Orthodox rite. Thanks to your prayers, their souls will be able to find peace in the Kingdom of Heaven.

Parents' Saturdays are important Orthodox events. On such days, we remember the departed and pray for the souls of our deceased relatives. On the eve of Meat Week, Ecumenical Parents' Saturday will begin. In 2018, its date falls on February 10. When visiting church, do not forget to light a candle and say a prayer for those who have left this world.

The meaning of Ecumenical Parental Saturday

In 2018, Ecumenical Parents' Saturday, also called Meat Saturday, will take place on February 10. It received this name because from the 11th the week of the Last Judgment, or Meat Empty, will begin, which precedes another important religious event - Lent.

Parents' Saturdays are called that not because on this day we remember our parents. Every person is obliged to pray for those who gave him life, and it doesn’t matter whether these people are among us or their soul has already passed on to another world. In our prayers we must thank all loved ones for their help.

Perhaps some people think that there is no point in praying for the dead. However, this is not true. A person leaves behind a huge mark not only on the world, but also on the souls of loved ones. After death, a person’s body is buried, but his soul goes to Heaven and continues its life, but no longer among us. Even death cannot break our contact with our family, which is why a part of them is always present next to you, and they can always hear your words and even thoughts. By saying prayers for their repose, we once again make it clear that we remember them and hope that their souls are at peace.

How to properly remember the dead

Ecumenical Parental Saturday is celebrated a week before Lent. From this day on, people begin preparing for Maslenitsa festivities and sometimes forget about the need to repent and cleanse their souls before the onset of an important Orthodox event. Do not forget that at this time, visiting church and praying to the Lord will help you find happiness in the near future.

As a rule, parents' Saturday begins with morning services. On this day, priests pray for Orthodox believers whose souls are already in Kingdom of Heaven. People visit churches and say prayers with the clergy. After visiting the temple, be sure to order a mass and commemoration of the dead.

If you do not have the opportunity to visit the temple, then you can pray for your deceased relatives at home. To do this, light a candle and say prayers for the repose of the soul of the deceased. To rest the souls of those who have voluntarily passed away, you need to give alms and ask those in need to pray for the souls of your deceased loved ones.

On Ecumenical Parents' Saturday, visit the graves of your loved ones and once again say prayers for their repose. Bread, water or candy can be placed next to the grave.

Drinking alcohol near the grave of the deceased is a sin. Drinking alcohol and eating fatty snacks on Ecumenical Parents' Saturday has nothing to do with traditions. If you want to remember the deceased at the refectory table, then prepare Lenten dishes. Compotes, juices and red wine are allowed as drinks. Only close relatives should be present at the table.

It's not often that we remember our deceased loved ones. However, their soul is always with us. Saying prayers for the deceased - important part ritual of remembrance. They will help your loved ones find peace in the Kingdom of Heaven. Appreciate every minute you spend with close people, and don't forget to press the buttons and

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Parents' Saturdays are of great importance in the lives of Orthodox believers. These days are intended to remember the dead and cleanse the soul.

In the Orthodox calendar for 2018 you will find all the main holidays that are celebrated by the Russian Orthodox Church. Parental Saturdays marked in it are a way to honor the memory of the forefathers who gave us life, as well as all those who died for the Orthodox faith.

Not every Parents' Saturday falls on the sixth day of the week. Those that “fall” specifically on Saturdays are usually called Ecumenical.

Ecumenical Parents' Saturdays in 2018

Opens a list Meat Saturday which will be celebrated February 10. On this day all relatives who graduated from earthly path. For the living, this holiday is a reminder of mortal life, which must be spent cultivating an immortal soul in purity and good intentions.

Trinity Parents' Saturday will take place before the church holiday of the Holy Trinity, and its date is May 26. On the fiftieth day after the Resurrection of the Lord, all the dead are remembered without exception, including those who died voluntarily or went missing.

Parental Saturdays of Great Lent

These Saturdays are different in that after the festive church liturgy, believers remain for a memorial service, in which they remember their deceased relatives. The priests are given notes in advance with the names of those whose souls they want to pray for.

First Saturday will take place during the second week of Lent, and its date is March 3.

Second Saturday noted in church calendar 2018 March 10, and its time is the third week of fasting.

Third Saturday will take place March 17. It is final and takes place during the fourth week of fasting.

Private parent days in 2018

Such days exist only in the practice of the Russian Church, and at this time you have the opportunity to pray for the souls of people who have found peace in Heaven.

May 9 At the solemn liturgy, the Russian people bow their heads as a sign of respect for the fallen soldiers who gave their lives during the Great Patriotic War. Tears of joy are interspersed with universal grief for the millions of fallen who showed exceptional valor and courage.

April 17 Radonitsa is celebrated, which follows exactly the ninth day after Easter.

September 11 They serve a memorial service for Orthodox soldiers who laid down their heads during the battle for the Faith, the Tsar and the Fatherland.

November 3 comes Dimitrievskaya Parents' Saturday. She refers us to the exploits of Dmitry Solunsky, died by death great martyr.

These Orthodox holidays show us the meaning human life. During church services everyone understands that worldly life is short and can end at any moment, but the immortal soul will continue to exist and will be responsible for all our actions.

Pray To the Higher Powers so that they can help you avoid hardships and problems on life path. Take time every day spiritual development which not only cleanses the soul, but also attracts good things into life. We wish you health and happiness, and do not forget to press the buttons and

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Special commemoration of the deceased according to the canons of the Orthodox Church in 2018, parental Saturdays, and not only, by day. Features of each day of remembrance, what to do on Parents' Saturday.

Most days special commemoration the deceased are shifted relative to Easter, there are memorial days that are not tied to the celebration of Easter - all the dates for 2018, their features and traditions.

Parents' Saturday is the traditional name of the day when the Church especially prays for the dead. Since ancient times, Saturday has been considered a day of rest, so on this day we pray for the repose of our loved ones and all Orthodox Christians who have died from time to time. Almost all days of special commemoration of deceased relatives and loved ones were established in the church calendar back in early Christian times. All dates in the article are given in the new style.

First, let us pay attention to the days associated in the annual circle of services with the Bright Feast of the Resurrection of Christ.

UNIVERSAL PARENTAL SATURDAY (MEAT SATURDAY) in 2018 falls on February 10. Ecumenical commemoration on this day was established on the basis that on the following Sunday Last Judgment and the Second Coming of Christ. In addition, the meat-free Mother's Saturday takes place during the period of preparation for Lent; on this day, Christians are called to remember that we and the departed are in the one Body of Christ, since God has everyone alive.

The funeral 2nd, 3rd, 4th SATURDAYS of GREAT LENT fall in 2018 on March 3, March 10 and March 17, respectively.

All Parents' Saturdays, All Souls' Days in 2018

In addition to the universal commemoration of the dead, which takes place in special days parental Saturdays, the Church celebrates ecumenical funeral services in the second, third and fourth weeks of Great Lent. On these Saturdays, the Church prays for the forgiveness of Orthodox Christians of “voluntary and involuntary sins... and their eternal repose with the Saints.”

On the days of remembrance that fall on cold period year, Orthodox Christians try to visit the temple and remember their departed loved ones at home. With the onset of warmer weather, people go to cemeteries to tidy up their resting places. The first large flow of those who commemorate occurs shortly after the Bright Feast of Easter, on Radonitsa.

All Parents' Saturdays, All Souls' Days in 2018

Radonitsa occupies a special place in the annual circle church holidays- this day is located immediately after Holy Week. The Church calls on Christians not to suffer over the death of loved ones, but to rejoice at their birth into eternal life.

On this day, the same funeral service is performed as on Ecumenical Parental Saturday during Meat Week. The similarity of these days of remembrance is also that they are located in the church circle a week before fasting. Trinity Saturday is placed on the calendar a week before the start of the Apostolic (Petrine) Lent, while Meat Saturday is placed a week before Lent.

Several days of special commemoration do not correspond to Easter.

All Parents' Saturdays, All Souls' Days in 2018

This is DMITRY SATURDAY, which in 2018 falls on November 3. This day of remembrance was established by the Russian Orthodox Church on the Saturday preceding the day of memory of Demetrius of Thessaloniki.

Dimitrievskaya Saturday was introduced into the church circle of worship at the request of Dmitry Donskoy after the Battle of Kulikovo. On this day, the Church traditionally remembers all the deceased Orthodox soldiers.

All Parents' Saturdays, All Souls' Days in 2018

IN recent years Another day of remembrance has become widespread, having special meaning. This is MAY 9 - commemoration of those who suffered during the hard years of the Great Patriotic War. This day is not approved by the Church, the tradition is just being formed.

Some Eastern Christians have a tradition of another memorial Saturday - before the Day of the Intercession Holy Mother of God– POKROVSKY SATURDAY. In 2018 it falls on October 13th.

On all days church commemoration it is advisable to remember for divine liturgy baptized during the life of the deceased. For this purpose, special notes are submitted in advance, colloquially called “Lunches of Repose.”

All Parents' Saturdays, All Souls' Days in 2018

Great alms for departed soul, has long been considered the reading of the UNSLEEPING PSALMTER. This requirement can be ordered in many Orthodox monasteries.

There is also a custom of ordering MEMORIAL SERVICES, which can be served not only in churches, but also in cemeteries.

It is possible to perform a memorial service in a secular manner, without the invitation of a priest. This is the so-called FUNERAL LITHIA, and can be performed by a layman in a cemetery or at home.

Exists ancient tradition consecration of KUTIA - specially prepared cereals with dried fruits and honey. After consecration in the temple, this funeral dish is eaten at home with prayer.

All Parents' Saturdays, All Souls' Days in 2018

In addition, it is widespread among Orthodox Christians to remember the dead by giving ALMS for them. A special place is occupied by the supply of food “NA CANON” - the offering of food to the temple by the laity. What is brought goes to the choir meal, in support of the families of the clergy, as well as to those who work in the church and everyone in need.

In Christianity, in addition to church holidays and fasts, there is also such a thing as parent’s day. 2018 will not be an exception and all believers will remember the souls of their deceased parents and close relatives.

What date are parenting days?

The days when the closest relatives are remembered are called parental days in Christianity. They usually take place on Saturdays. There are eight such memorial days in the church calendar throughout the year. Every year they take place in different days, since they are tied to the main thing Christian holiday Easter. It is not for nothing that Saturdays were chosen as memorial days. These are the quietest and least busy days of the week. So, in 2018, the Orthodox will host the following parenting days:

10.02.18 First funeral Saturday also called Meat Eating or Universal. On this day, loved ones are remembered, especially those who died suddenly. Since this memorial day takes place before Maslenitsa week, its distinctive feature is the baking of pancakes. According to custom, the first pancake baked is intended for deceased close relatives. According to religious canons, the next pancake must be given to the poor and children.
03.03.18, 10.03.18, 17.03.18 Three Saturdays in a row among Orthodox Christians are dedicated to commemorating not only their relatives, but also all those who died while carrying out strict self-restraint. This the only days, when you can remember your relatives during a long fast. During Lent, magpies are also prohibited.
17.04.18 Radonitsa is the main memorial day.
09.05.18 In addition to relatives, they remember fallen soldiers and those who died during numerous wars.
24.05.18 Semik is celebrated. It is not a religious memorial day. However, he is alive in people's memory. On this day, it is customary to remember people who passed into another life by force: drowned people, suicides, as well as dead unbaptized children.
26.05.18 This day is characterized by the fact that it is celebrated just before Trinity. On Trinity Saturday, it is customary to pray for the souls of deceased relatives, so that they find peace and their life becomes eternal.
11.09.18 Orthodox warriors come to mind. This day was legalized by the Russian Orthodox Church when the Russian-Turkish war was going on. On this day they also honor John the Baptist, who was beheaded for his true faith.
03.11.18 On Dimitrievskaya Saturday, in addition to parents and relatives, the soldiers of the Battle of Kulikovo are remembered.

Why are the days of remembrance of loved ones called parental days?

There are several interpretations of this fact:

  • The first explanation for this name suggests itself. After all, when remembering deceased relatives, we first of all think about the people closest to us - our parents;
  • Another version is that after a deceased person is interred, he, according to Christians, goes to his closest people, that is, his parents.

Main memorial day

Radonitsa is considered the main memorial day for Orthodox Christians. In different regions of Russia it is celebrated in different times. According to church canons, the main parental memorial day falls on the ninth day after Easter, namely Tuesday. In 2018 it will be 04/17/18. It should be noted that this day is called differently in different regions of Russia. Somewhere it is called Graves, somewhere Easter of the Dead, and somewhere Radovnica. However, the essence of this holiday remains unchanged. This is a special day for remembering deceased parents and closest people. It is believed that the name “Radonitsa” comes from the verb “to rejoice”, since on this day we not only remember our deceased loved ones, but also congratulate them on Easter, believing that the Kingdom of Heaven will come and all the dead will be resurrected.

The main feature of this day is the preparation of a special treat, which is intended both for people living now and for the dead. On Radonitsa, eggs are painted again and kutia is prepared. It should be noted that most eggs are painted red. In some regions of Russia, the tradition of “christening with the dead” has been preserved. To do this, red eggs are buried in the ground. In some villages it is customary to place them in the ground directly in the cemetery, in others it is enough to bury them in a field or behind the house where the deceased lived. In such an area, it is generally believed that “the dead move underground.”

Another constant dish on Radonitsa is kutia. This is what I call porridge made from wheat or rice, mixed with raisins, nuts, poppy seeds and dried fruits. Before you start eating at the funeral table, you must definitely taste the kutya.

Some Slavic peoples also preserved the tradition of baking pancakes on this day. Some housewives bake thin, translucent treats, while others prefer lush delicacies. Regardless of this, pancakes are considered to be fully prepared according to the ritual if they are well oiled. It is the amount of oil that indicates how relatives remember the deceased. The first pancakes are traditionally placed in a bundle or basket and taken to the cemetery.

Until now, all relatives come to Radonitsa to visit the graves of the deceased so that they can all remember their loved ones together and taste pancakes. In the old days, this was the end of the meal at the cemetery. People went home and festive table continued to remember the dead.

If a wake at home involved the consumption of alcohol, it was forbidden to clink glasses. The use of knives and forks was also unacceptable. It was forbidden to throw away leftovers from the funeral table. It was customary to feed the “birds of heaven” with them.

It is worth noting that during Soviet power some traditions have undergone changes. If before the October Revolution of 1917 Radonitsa was considered a holiday, and everyone could visit the cemetery without any problems, then during the Soviet period this became problematic. Despite this, people still came to their deceased relatives, but not on Tuesday, but on Sunday.

Another change was that lavish meals with alcohol began to be held next to the graves. Moreover, after them eggs, glasses with vodka, bread and other food were left at the burial sites. The Church considers this unacceptable. When remembering loved ones, it is necessary to pray for their souls and hope that resurrection awaits us all.

Church ministers believe that Easter cakes, eggs, etc., which are left after commemoration, are a sign of pagan traditions - “treating the dead.” If you consider yourself an Orthodox person, then you should not do this. It is also unacceptable to pour alcohol on graves.

The most correct behavior At the grave of the deceased in Radonitsa the following order of things is considered:

  • before the holiday it is necessary to clean the grave and bring it into proper condition;
  • when visiting a burial place, you should light a candle and read a prayer;
  • after this, together with other relatives, you need to remember the deceased in the best light;
  • at the end you can taste pancakes or Easter cakes and congratulate the dead on the Holy Resurrection.