Otitis

Precise, apt expressions, mottos for life. Slogans for all occasions that inspire

Table game for adults “My motto in life”

The presenter puts the first set of cards in one hat (or places it on a tray), and the second set in another hat (on a tray). Each participant draws one card from different sets and reads out what he got, starting with the words: “My motto...”

First set of cards:

My motto is in love
My motto in friendship
My motto at work
My motto in sex
My motto on the beach
My motto in the sauna
My motto is away
My motto in the restaurant
My motto in the market
My motto at the resort
My motto in transport
My motto in the bank
My motto in the bedroom
My motto in the kitchen
My motto in the theater
My motto in the club
My motto for a romantic date
My motto at holiday banquets

Second set of cards:

“Russian vodka” - don’t let yourself dry out!
Enter quietly, speak clearly, ask little, leave quickly!
He who laughs like a horse laughs well!
Pay, don't break the bank - then enjoy!
There is still gunpowder in the flasks and berries in the buttocks!
A small dollar is better than a big thank you!
He came, he saw and... he left!
Don't have a hundred rubles, but have an impudent face!
You may not shine with your mind, but you must shine with your boots!
Those born to take cannot give!
Control yourself if your legs won't hold you up!
Happy people don't wear panties!
I love you, life, and you love me - again and again...
Money is not a luxury, but a means of drinking!
Don't put off until tomorrow what you can drink today!
Stand up for yourself, stand up for others!
Pedal until you stop!
I don’t swear, I speak it!

Instead of the suggested ones, you can come up with your own versions of “mottos”, using various proverbs, sayings and catchphrases.

The male ego is a delicate thing. At the same time, no matter how much you inflate it, it, like a good sail, will not burst. And there is no need for this - it is more prudent to swim under it and swim towards happiness, prosperity and harmonious life.

However, is all praise pleasant for a man or is he for for many years evolution learned to rank it, distinguishing between subtle flattery, selfish toadying, and rude admiration? Praise why for men especially nice and what is the most wonderful compliment they have ever heard addressed to themselves? With all these questions, as usual, I pestered, pestered, and still couldn’t get away from our beloved Belarusian men. And the most interesting thing is that they answered with such pleasure!

(At the end of the article there is a discordant girl’s choir, claiming that they praise their men, and a commentary from a psychologist, almost completely refuting this statement.)

The King speaks!

Volodya, 27:

“I love it when people praise me, and I hate it when they nag me. The worst thing, of course, is when, say, in the morning they tell me how wonderful I am, and by the evening they tell me how crap I am. It’s logical that I like it when they tell you that you are the best, no matter what(in a positive sense, naturally, because “the dumbest” will not have such an effect). The main thing is that for her most. Compliments come next. appearance and intelligence. In short, the same things that we like since childhood, when our mother praised us."

Yuri, 33:

“My two-year-old niece is the most real woman of all the women in our clan. It’s not for nothing that they say that girls have a full set of hormones from birth. She asks my son Mishka to ride her on a bike, on a trunk, for example. He takes it. And she: “Misha, you are so smart!” That is, she already understood this simple principle. Praise your man - he'll hurt himself. Because he is loved and appreciated here. That is, praise in a relationship brings only advantages. And then, it happens, a man paints a fence, walks around, asks everyone: “Well, it’s beautiful, right?” That is, it begs for praise. And the wife: “It would be better if you nailed a shelf in the house!” She seems pleased, but she’s afraid to over-praise, or something. Keeps you in good shape, that is. Maybe, of course, there are such spiritual masochists, but it seems to me that sooner or later there will be another who will say: “Oh, you are so smart, you have such a sense of humor, you are so lucky!” And he will decide that, well, indeed! I'll go..."

Vadim, 22:

“I don’t like being praised at all. It pulls me out of the process of self-improvement. Although I don’t like being nagged either. I love healthy constructive criticism. It’s just compliments are either untrue or something I already know about myself. In the first case, there is nothing to be happy about at all for obvious reasons, but in the second - well, ok, thanks for being the captain. Well, look: when a woman says to you, “Oh, how wonderful you are, how wonderful,” it means that next time it will be, “Oh, wow, I thought you were good, I praised you so much, I tried so hard, and you behaved like a beast."

Alexey, 30:

"When you are praised, it is always pleasant. The question is whether BEFORE you were praised, there was WHAT you were praised FOR. Personally, in my life I only take money for the work done - that’s why I prefer well-founded praises/comments. If they praise just like that, out of nowhere, the question arises - something is wrong here. Especially when a woman praises, the conclusion arises by itself - this is what happens in 90% of cases. ? When the wife says: “My husband did it!”

Vasily, 26:

"I distinguish two types of female praise. One is approval, which is necessary in order to start a conversation or support it. By the way, this may often be followed by some kind of request, but I take this calmly. The second type is praise, which is followed by interest in me as a man. How do I feel about this? Depends on how I myself look at the development of this relationship. If I really noticed such a quality in myself, then it’s nice, but here it is. If the compliment is forced, I smile and thank you, but the thought in my head is “what are you up to?” The coolest compliment I heard was, perhaps, for my ears: on top of them (not inside, but on top) such light, short and very soft hair grows. The compliment was that it made my ears “very cool and nice to pet.” I also remember one from a girl with whom I did social work at the university. She said that being with me was easy and calm, as if you were sitting next to me on a cloud. Well okay :)"

Slava, 29:

“Of course, it’s nice when you’re praised, especially if it’s a woman, and especially if you like her. It’s doubly nice when you’re praised for work or an action that you yourself are pleased with. Because if you’re praised for some little thing, it’s not really It’s valuable. And in general, it’s already unpleasant if you feel that they are sucking up to you in this way and trying to appease you, so that later they can somehow use them. For me, the most pleasant compliments are those that emphasize a man’s essence. "a real man", "my man", "my hero" etc. Well, probably It is especially worth highlighting the compliments received for achievements in bed. If, of course, they are sincere, otherwise it’s like a sickle in the balls.”

The Queen echoes

Tatiana, 30:

“I have always praised all my men, they, one might say, bathed in praise. In a good way. And from experience I can say that they really need it and really like it - they grow stronger and become more confident. True, not everyone knows how to react and accept compliments, because they are “spoiled” / suppressed by past relationships or incorrect family guidelines. Therefore, if I encounter this, I try to praise measuredly and gently, gradually explaining in conversations that this is normal, good and very necessary for both women and men. men."

Tatiana, 28:

“I praise my husband maybe 5 times a day, and sometimes even once a week. I praise him for specific tasks (we are currently undergoing renovations, and he really does a lot), I praise him for his creativity - no matter how simple playing the guitar may seem ( namely technical development, routine exercises), it still requires effort and, in his case, perseverance. Besides, this is a significant part of his life (he is a musician), and it is important to me, so his good sense of self in this matter is important. I prepared breakfast, for example, why not say that he did a great job, especially when it’s true. I like to praise little things, but it’s not like giving a horse sugar for a number in the arena, it’s really sincere.

Sometimes I praise preventatively, how could I do without it when he has PMS :) The husband accepts praise normally, especially when it comes to action, and doesn’t hide behind “oh, what are you doing.” It is important to him that I appreciate him and that he can feel like a support, so when I praise him for such moments and situations, he is doubly pleased. But he doesn’t like praise for the sake of praise - I tried it once and quickly stopped short: I thought it would cheer him up, but Now I understand that there must be a reason for praise. Except when he has PMS :)"

Alesya, 30:

“I don’t praise my husband often - usually if I need something from him. I show my love more through actions and deeds. Well, for example, he loves it when stuffed peppers suddenly appear on the table or I come to him in purple stockings and red lipstick. Well, what other reaction could there be to this other than wild delight?”

About women

A woman rarely forgives jealousy and never forgives its absence.

Women love most when people spend money on them. (Moliere)

“Women, like children, love to say no.” Men, like children, take it seriously."

Women over thirty are in their in better shape, but men in their thirties are too old to understand this.

Honest people love women, cheaters adore them. (Beaumarchais P.)

No matter how badly a man thinks about women, every woman thinks even worse about them. (Chamfort)

Get married no matter what. If you get caught good wife, you will be an exception, and if you are bad, you will become a philosopher. (Socrates)

When a woman doesn't know what she wants, she doesn't want you.

For a smart woman, compliments serve to evaluate men, for a stupid woman - for self-esteem.

In company, a man should be at least a little bit, at least for 5 minutes, more sober than a woman.

I like women who are conquered by their intelligence, not by their beauty...

It's one thing to guess, quite another to know. Two very big differences...

It’s not enough to pick up the key to a woman. It also needs to be turned at the right moment...

“If a man begins to talk about his problems, illnesses, relationships with women, then he is no longer perceived as a being of the opposite sex, but as a friend” (M. Zudina).

“By changing, a woman seeks the best, and a man seeks something new.”

Women compose funny phrases about men to show their superiority over the stronger sex.

A man enters a woman’s life and makes his own in it. (Louise Leblanc)

A woman reaches maturity when the computer becomes more interesting to her than the mirror.

It's easier to send fifteen drunk men home than one drunk girl.

When your thoughts are occupied with another man, nothing will work out even with Prince Charles...

A man who loves one woman all his life should be sent to the doctor, and maybe even to the gallows.

Have you ever seen a woman who loved the poor?

God created copulation, man created love.

The purpose of love is liberation from love.

Love is based on the delusion that one woman is different from another.

Love never dies from want, but often from indigestion.

Many people think: “I found a girl, I can delete porn from my computer!”
My advice to you is - don’t rush, get married - you’ll have to download again...

True happiness by its nature loves solitude; it is the enemy of noise and luxury and is born mainly from self-love.

Damned love is to blame for everything. Whoever succumbs to it will lose Freedom, courage and reason at once.

When a person falls in love, he is like a sole, which, if you soak it in water and bend it, it will bend.

The lover is blind. But the visible trace of passion leads him where there is no way for the sighted.

The moments of meeting and parting are for many the greatest moments in life.

Words of love grow numb when separated.

Temporary separation is useful, because constant communication creates the appearance of monotony

Majority honest women- these are closed treasures that are intact only because no one has looked for them yet.

When a woman stops loving a man, she forgets everything - even the favors she gave him.

The chastity of women is for the most part simply a concern for a good name and peace.

Women don't like funny men, and men don't like witty women.

Women's love is superior to men's. The difference that accrues to children is enormous.

Women's honor is poorly guarded where love or religion is not guarding it.

Only when she is completely old can a woman give up the vain desire to live in front of someone.

Women's jewelry flaunts men's vanity.

Men behave well because women exist; women behave well because they have nothing else to do.

There's nothing better than women, if you want to invest your money where everyone will notice it.

There are many women who scream at the sight of a mouse or rat, but are capable of poisoning their husband or, even worse, causing him to poison himself.

You can imagine a humanity consisting of only women, but you cannot imagine a humanity consisting of only men.

Don't trust a woman who has been caught being unfaithful. Today she is faithful to you, tomorrow - to someone else.

If a woman goes down the wrong path, the man follows her in the right direction.

A married woman is a slave who must be placed on the throne.

Only women know how to love - both God and man.

A woman is dangerous to every paradise. (Paul Claudel)

It was as cold as ice cream and melted just as easily. (Emil Krotky)

You can invest a lot of money in an empty woman. (Stanislav Lec)

Women live longer than men, especially widows. (Georges Clemenceau)

Female beauty and male intelligence are mostly detrimental to their owners... (Philip Chesterfield)

Flattery is an urgent need handsome men, whose specialty is that they are beautiful men.

A woman has more immediate, momentary strength, which is called enterprise; a man has more latent stored strength, which is called laziness...

A man with an effeminate character is the most poisonous libel for a person. (Vissarion Belinsky)

A woman can make a man righteous in only one way: to bore him so much that he loses all interest in life. (Oscar Wilde)

Men would behave much more boldly if they knew what was on women's minds; and women would behave much more flirtatiously if they knew men better. (Jean Carr)

Not a single man who has to do something important in this world has the time and money for such a long and expensive hunt as the hunt for a woman. (George Shaw)

Do not say in the presence of your wife all the bad things that you think about women in general, and all the good things that you think about some of them. (Jean Rostand)

Women think that all men are the same, and this is their strength; men think that all women are different - this ruins them.

How strong a man would be if the Lord had created him from Eve’s rib!

A gentleman takes advantage of a woman's vulnerable position only if he himself has put her in that position.

The house is a prison for a man and a workhouse for a woman.

Men have the same exaggerated idea of their rights as women do of their lack of rights.

Laughing at the weaker sex in their presence is tantamount to suicide - they will definitely take revenge.

A bachelor knows more about women than a married man. Otherwise he would also be married.

The road to success is crowded with women who push their husbands in front of them.

Women are sadists; they torture us with the torments we inflict on them.

Feminism is when you no longer count on Prince Charming.

Women's lust and men's are like an epic and an epigram.

Women guess everything, and if they make a mistake, it’s on purpose.

Women have an instinct: they know how to ignore the unpleasant.

A woman will always prefer your slavery to her freedom.

In vengeance and love, a woman is more barbaric than a man.

An independent woman is a woman who has not found anyone who wants to depend on her.

A woman reigns, but does not rule.

A frightened woman is the most dangerous. This is why women get scared so easily.

A man proves his love not by how he speaks about it, but by how he remains silent about it.

A man in love often looks like a fool; a woman in love - never.

To love means to agree to grow old with another person.

The one who is loved the least is truly loved.

Love always promises the impossible and makes you believe in the impossible.

A woman can sometimes fall in love with her husband.

Of all the objects of hatred, the most hated is the once beloved woman.

The one who trumpets love to everyone does not love.

The desire to love is not yet love. But the fear of falling in love is already love.

Many of those for whom the day drags on too long complain that life is too short.

Almost every person, if you take him at his word, holds beliefs that are completely different from those that guide him in life.

Poor things!!! How will you live now if the most best man in the world - mine!

It is easiest for people with weak imagination to find the girl of their dreams.

Any love that is not caused by freedom of spirit, but by something else, easily turns into hatred.

Usually love fizzles out quickly, especially when it has to go uphill, from children to parents.

Life is endless improvement. To consider yourself perfect is to kill yourself.

To live means to be loved. He lived or she lived - this means only one thing: he or she was loved a lot.

In the old age of love, as in the old age of years, people still live for sorrows, but no longer live for pleasures.

We cannot tear out a single page from our lives, but we can throw the entire book into the fire.

Women give to friendship only what they borrow from love.

Life is never fair. For most of us, it's probably better this way.

Love is a game in which both cheat.

Life is what people strive most to preserve and protect least.

A seducer who prides himself on revealing the secrets of love to a woman is like a foreigner who shows up at a train station and undertakes to show the local guide all the city’s attractions.

Life is just a bad quarter of an hour made up of wonderful seconds.

The best performers play the main roles on stage. Life is different.

In love, as in the Roman Catholic religion, there is a preliminary purgatory in which, before entering the real eternal hell, you get used to being fried.

Beautiful phrases about love and life: The blind man should not be portrayed as love, but as narcissism.

Selfishness makes the same miracles out of a person as love.

Love, even the most sublime, gives you over to your own passions, and marriage gives you over to your wife’s passions: ambition, vanity and everything else.

Nature has given us the ability not to think about death, because if we thought about it, the world would remain motionless and numb.

Constancy in love is of two kinds: we are constant either because we constantly find in our loved one new qualities worthy of love, or because we consider constancy a duty of honor.

Living means not only changing, but also remaining yourself.

Vows of love prove its fickleness: true friendship does not pronounce them.

First love is so fragrant because it forgets the difference between the sexes, because it is a passionate friendship.

They don’t live twice, and there are many who don’t know how to live even once.

We are pious enough to hate each other, but not pious enough to love each other.

Do you love life? Then don't waste time; for time is the fabric of which life is made.

We are fascinated by everything in which our ideal, goal and object of our desires and our love are manifested.

“You need to live in such a way that even the bastards remember you.”

If a woman's wings are cut, she begins to fly on a broom.

Nothing adorns a woman more than a well-chosen man.

Happiness is when you smile without thinking.

Happiness is when your desires are shocked by your possibilities...

Learn to forgive your enemies, but never forget their names.

When fate puts spokes in our wheels, only worthless spokes break.

If you are spat in the back, don’t be upset – it means you are ahead.

For their troubles, people tend to blame fate, the gods and everything else, but not themselves.

If you want life to smile at you, give it your good mood first!

There are actually few fools, but they are so cleverly placed that every now and then you bump into them. (Faina Ranevskaya)

If you don't know what you want, you'll end up with a lot of things you didn't want.

If a woman is silent, it is better not to interrupt her.

When I have it, I would kill it, when I don’t, I would buy it (this is about my husband)

“So what if I’m sleeping, when she speaks, she wants me to hear and wake me up. But I don’t interrupt her.”

When my husband runs out of arguments, he always wings it to me: “Think as you want...”

"From the disappearance of one the only woman nothing in the world will stop... except the heart of one single man" (Shakespeare)

“I like how beautiful and proud women leave, arrogantly and swiftly, clicking their heels and slamming the door.
Maybe they will then slide down her back side and they cry bitterly, but they leave wonderfully”...

Equality is the strongest foundation of love. (Lessing)

To love is to find your own happiness in the happiness of another. (Karamzin N. M.)

Love is characteristic only of a sane person. (Epictetus)

Teaching a fool, joking with a fool and arguing with a woman is the same as drawing water with a sieve! God deliver us from these three. (W. Shakespeare.)

You don't have to be perfect to be loved.

Women are created to be loved, not understood!!! (Oscar Wilde)

Never run after a bus or a man - one will leave, another will come...

If a woman is ready to do anything for a man, then she gave birth to him.

Don't bring out the bitch in me! She doesn't get enough sleep anyway, poor thing...

I would send you, but I see you are already from there...

"I have never felt for my former men such hatred as to give back the jewels they donated!”

Marriage is like joining the military: everyone complains, but you'd be surprised how many want to join.

I didn't say he was getting married. I just said that he was going to get married. This is far from the same thing. For example, I clearly remember that I got married, but I don’t remember at all that I was going to get married. And I am inclined to think that I never had such an intention. (Oscar Wilde)

“When a man retreats, he simply retreats. When a woman retreats, she does so in order to take a running start.” (Zaza Gabor.)

Men who do not forgive women for their small shortcomings will never enjoy their great virtues.
(Jubran X.)

Actually I have golden rule: do not lend money, take the car for a ride and take your husband to the cinema

Never marry a woman you can live with!
Marry the one you can't live without!

Happy is he whose home is adorned with the modest fidelity of his wife.

If you feel wings behind your shoulders, it means you have a good mother-in-law.

If I sometimes blush, it’s only from pleasure!

women will never understand what men want... and how can they be understood if men want women and women want men))))

My mother gave me some practical advice in my life: “Always watch your posture, the world does not lie on your shoulders, it is under your feet.”

TO MAKE IT EASY, YOU NEED TO PUT UP!!!

A woman's thoughts are cleaner - she changes them more often.

There are 2 ways to command a woman - but no one knows them!

I owe everything I know to my mom.
1) Mom taught me to RESPECT OTHER WORK:
“If you are going to kill each other, go outside, I just washed the floors.”
2) Mom taught me to BELIEVE IN GOD:
"Pray that this nasty thing will wash off"
3) Mom taught me to THINK LOGICALLY:
"Because I said so, that's why"
4) Mom taught me to THINK ABOUT CONSEQUENCES:
“If you fall out of the window now, I won’t take you to the store with me!”
5) Mom explained to me the CAUSE-AND-EFFECT RELATIONSHIP:
“If you don’t stop crying right now, I’ll spank you.”
6) Mom taught me to OVERCOME THE IMPOSSIBLE:
"Shut your mouth and eat the soup"
7) Mom taught me PERSISTENCE:
"You won't leave the table until you finish"
Mom taught me NOT TO ENVY:
“Yes, there are millions of children in the world who are not as lucky with their parents as you are.”
9) My mother taught me to FIND BOLDLY INTO THE FUTURE:
"Just wait, I'll talk to you at home"
10) Mom taught me the BASICS OF SELF-MEDICATION:
“If you don’t stop cross-eyed, you’ll stay that way for the rest of your life.”
11) Mom taught me EXTRASENSORY:
“Put on a sweater - I know you’re cold!”
12) Mom taught me HOW TO BECOME AN ADULT:
"If you don't eat vegetables, you'll never grow"
13) Mom taught me the BASICS OF GENETICS:
“You got it all from your father!”
14) Mom taught me the HIGHEST JUSTICE:
“So that your children are just like you!”

Well, why do many people care about the question of whether I have a husband? At least someone would ask if I have an appetite, mink coat? Have I been to Cyprus?

To avoid calling my exes, I deleted their numbers from my phone. Then I threw out the pages from the old notebook... And then I just stopped drinking. And then it helped.

Those who don't love me - calm down, I don't love you either.

If only he could tell you to go to hell, he'll bring you back...

What's between you now? - We remember each other.

Sometimes you regret what you said dear words, cheap people.

Every woman dreams O harmonious relationships with people of the opposite sex. After all, it is men who give women love and care; they can make her truly happy.

Which one motto in relationships with men What should a woman choose for herself in order to find peace and confidence in the future in a relationship?

Let's try to answer this question.

One of the ancient poets compared a woman to a flower; he described that, going out into a spring field, you can see how they grow different flowers: and beautiful freedom-loving poppies, and delicate blue bells, and bold and bold tulips.

Also women. They are all very different, so they are looking for themselves different men and choose a motto for themselves in a relationship with a man, depending on life circumstances.

Let's try to consider the mottos of different representatives of the fair sex.

I'm moving forward, if you want, stay close»

With such a woman to a man very difficult to cope. After all, before him is a modern emancipated representative of the fair sex, she does everything herself, decides everything herself, takes responsibility and without illusions looks to the future.

It is difficult to surprise such a woman with anything, because she expects little from her partner and is not afraid of losing him.

A man caring for such a lady of his heart must either come to terms with the role of a cute domestic henpecked man, or accept the situation of constant domestic conflict and struggle in the family for the right to decide how to live and what to do.

Such a woman, as a rule, chooses some profitable and serious profession for herself: she becomes a successful lawyer or economist, opens her own business producing or trading certain goods, strive to become a leader middle or senior management.

A woman leader always takes care of herself, her appearance, clothes and hairstyle. Although this usually manifests itself in the fact that she wears a business suit without a hint of femininity and a short haircut.

The lady leader does not like to emphasize her belonging to the weaker sex; she does not wear jewelry, considering it to be trinkets. You can't make her cry over melodrama in the cinema.

Such a woman pays some attention to her family, however career growth also means a lot to her, so she would rather give up her husband than her career. Sometimes such women become devoted mothers, but they behave too authoritarian in their relationships with their own children, shamelessly interfering in and leading their lives.

Thus, the chosen motto in a relationship with a man allows a woman leader to assert herself and gain vitality inside myself.

I live for you"

The opposite of the emancipated type modern woman is a traditional and already a thing of the past type of mother-housewife, of course devoted to her husband and children, resigned and outwardly very weak.

Such women are called create comfort around you. They take care of their children and husband as the most precious thing in their life. Such women are able to get up at five o'clock in the morning to cook delicious food for their husband. healthy breakfast, set the table for him and wake up his dear spouse at the appointed time.

Women devote themselves to children, they buy them expensive toys, not at all caring that they themselves dress more than modestly.

As a rule, men who choose such a woman as their wife and show concern for her can find family happiness and peace with her.

However, if a man eventually gets bored with such a woman, it will be difficult for him to break off relations with her, because for such a woman the break will be a real tragedy.

This type of woman can't survive betrayal, she becomes depressed, having lost the meaning of life with the loss of a significant man.

Let's love each other as equals»

Such a woman represents " golden mean“between a woman leader, for whom a man is only an accompaniment to her life, and a woman housewife who dissolves in her husband and children.

reasonable and moderately emotional. She will not come into conflict with her husband over trifles, but nevertheless she is able to defend her position and point of view in front of him. However, such a woman will do it gently, without pressing the husband.

Such a woman will allow a man feel like a leader, at the same time she will achieve the respect of her husband and children.

A woman of this type has a good profession that allows her to simultaneously build a career and be a wife and mother. Although family is still more important for such a woman, she will not sacrifice her family for the sake of achieving professional success.

Such a woman calm and friendly, she appreciates and loves her husband, but divorce will not be an insurmountable tragedy for her: she is strong and weak at the same time. She allows herself to be taken care of and is happy to take care of herself.

A man living next to such a woman may find true happiness, because she respects him and respects herself, and this is very important. The chosen motto in relations with a man allows such a woman love and be loved, while remaining a unique and inimitable personality.

The motto in a relationship with a man is every woman's right to choose, only we choose our destiny and are responsible for our choice!

There are always lighthouses at sea piers. They light the way for ships to return home successfully. We are people, but we also need beacons to illuminate the path of life, because in pitch darkness It's easy to get lost. Even though there are generally accepted rules of behavior in society that say what can be done and what cannot be done, everyone should have their own indestructible credo - a life motto that guides a person to his cherished goal.

Does a person need a credo?

Most people today get along just fine without a life motto. They know that they need to be able to survive, and, in fact, they are not interested in anything else. Does a person need a credo? Definitely yes:

Having formulated his principles and values in a short and succinct phrase, a person receives a solid foundation in life.
A life motto is a compass that points not only to a goal, but also shows ways to achieve it.
Having a vital foundation under his feet, a person gains the strength to overcome obstacles.

Life flies too quickly, getting caught up in the cycle of events, it is very easy to forget about your plans and values. The trap of affairs, woven from public opinion and circumstances, alienates a person from his true intentions and desires. Only having something sustainable in our arsenal can we confidently move towards our goal, weeding out everything unnecessary along the way.

Quality standard

A life credo is a kind of mix that consists of:

What a person wants to be.
His goals.
Principles and values.

These provisions should be the standard for making important decisions; they are precisely the core that is not afraid of changes.

Today people rarely create their own life motto. Usually they use the words of great people, aphorisms, quotes and statuses that briefly and succinctly reflect everything that a person wants to tell himself. Although you can meet those who describe their motto with dozens of points. There are no special criteria to adhere to. The main thing is that the established rules make life easier and clearer, help achieve what you want, and the person forever remains a Man with a capital “H.”

Thoughts of antiquity

Nowadays, it is rare to meet a person with a life motto that comes from the lips of thinkers of the ancient world. It’s very in vain, because even today their words have a deep meaning:

People who decide to act are usually lucky. Moreover, it rarely accompanies someone who only weighs and hesitates (Herodotus).

It is better to be exposed to injustice than to commit it yourself (Socrates).

It is better to be the subject of envy than compassion (Herodotus).

Do not do anything shameful, either in front of others or in secret. Your first law should be self-respect (Pythagoras).

These phrases very clearly explain that you need to remain human in any conditions and never give up. Although words about action are usually understood only by those who know first-hand how disgusting a person who decides to retreat can feel. At such moments, it seems that all meaning is lost in life and there is no motivation to do anything. Not even like that: having retreated, a person involuntarily asks the question: “Inhale, exhale. But why?

winding river

Standing water tends to turn into a swamp. It's the same with a person. He has no moral right to stop: if a person does not move forward, then he is degrading. It's simple. Life is a humiliatingly short thing, and perhaps you can find the answers in examples of life mottos:

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet (Jean-Jacques Rousseau).

Time does not like to be wasted (Henry Ford).

Not a single athlete managed to become a champion after more than a dozen years (Lyudmila Gurchenko).

A bad student is one who is not superior to the teacher (Leonardo da Vinci).

Never give up on your dreams (Paulo Coelho).

To conquer the whole world, you need to defeat yourself (Fyodor Dostoevsky).

Take every chance as if it were your last (Henry Ford).

No desire is given to a person separately from the power that allows it to be fulfilled (Richard Bach).

And even here everything is extremely clear: moving forward, improving every day, is what a person should do.

A proverb is also a motto

A life principle or motto can often be found in proverbs and sayings. Consider the simple and at times annoying “morning is wiser than evening.” Surely each of us has heard it more than once. And it was especially infuriating when there were a couple of hours left before the alarm went off, and there was a couple of days of unfinished work and everything needed to be done urgently to show the boss in the morning. It is at such moments that this saying is completely inappropriate (it also gets on your nerves). Although in other cases it can become an excellent motto for “larks” who, having accumulated enough strength during the night, only by opening their eyes, immediately solve problems that seemed insurmountable in the evening.

Other sayings are not without their deep meaning:

What goes around comes around.

To achieve a goal, you must first go to it.

The one who does nothing makes no mistakes.

Never say never.

Fate leads the smart, but drags the stupid.

If you want to live, know how to spin.

What are men talking about?

It has already been mentioned that life mottos, which meaningfully convey to a person the guidelines for his activities, may not look like a quote, but look like a list. So, for example, you can make a list of internal guidelines for men and women.

The strong half of humanity usually sees their creeds as follows:

There should be no compromise with honesty.
You should always remember about the people who are nearby.
It is necessary to judge something or someone when the opinions of all parties have been heard.
Listen to other people's advice.
Stand up for the weak and those who are discussed behind their backs.
Combine sincerity and determination.
Acquire a new ability every year.
Make plans for tomorrow.
While waiting for something, do not sit idle.
Maintain a sense of humor and order.
Be afraid of creative and constructive responses to mistakes.
Listen more than talk.

Life mottos of women

Using exactly the same principle, you can draw up life credos for women:

Maintain a balance between work and family.
Create a cozy, calm and joyful home.
Show wisdom regarding family leisure.
Develop skills that expand opportunities.
Subordinate desires and needs to existing opportunities, etc.

Workers' creed

It is worth noting that a life motto is not only a personal matter for everyone, but also a powerful argument that influences the decision to hire. Today, many employers pay attention not so much to all the text that is written in the resume, but to the life credo of the applicant. Just one phrase - and it becomes clear whether this person will work in the company or not.

For example, obligatory people can write in their resume that their credo is a simple solution: “If you promise, you will deliver.” Applicants with a constructive mindset can simply say that they are always moving towards the goal without emotions that prevent them from thinking soberly. Resourceful people often note that they can find opportunity in any circumstance.

Phrase: “I know how to respond to changes in environment"Speaks of human flexibility. And the words: “I notice an opportunity - act” show that a person has initiative.

Just by looking at the life credo noted in the resume, the employer can almost instantly determine whether the applicant is suitable for him or not. In addition, during recruitment, the human factor cannot be excluded. It often happens that a person is invited to work only because his motto in life is almost the same as that of the potential employer.

Wise phrases

The best life mottos can be completely different: a proverb, a famous aphorism, or even an advertising slogan. Sometimes it can be one word or phrase, and at times an entire chapter taken from a book. In fact, it's not that important. The main thing is that all these words illuminate the path for a person walking through life, directing him in the right direction.

The life credo is somewhat reminiscent of the warm spring sun: as soon as it appears after a long winter, life immediately begins to blossom in the world. Same with life credo- as soon as a person decides what he really wants and how he wants to see himself, all the doors will open to him. It may seem that such phrases are simply beautiful words, but it is precisely in such words that great power lies. Just like thoughts, words are material and have a great influence on a person.

The tradition of life mottos has been known since ancient times. The Knights of Camelot used short and succinct statements that showed their life and moral position. This is the basis of a person’s internal self-motivation, sometimes the motto can be ready-made solution V difficult situation. This is a kind of epigraph human life.

Yes, you can do without it. You don’t have to bother choosing your credo, but what will a person get in the end? Most likely, a boundless, ringing emptiness, where there will be social norms and rules of conduct, but the person will cease to be.

Push the boundaries! I always do what I don’t know how to do in order to learn it (Pablo Picasso).

Inspiration should come while working (Pablo Picasso).

The most important thing is to put things in order in your soul: don’t complain, don’t blame, don’t justify (Bernard Shaw).

Anyone who can be happy alone is a real person. You are a slave if your happiness depends on others (Osho).

Most people are only as happy as they decide to be (Abraham Lincoln).

Those who wait passively eventually receive what they expected, but only what is left after those who acted energetically (Abraham Lincoln).

Each of us is a unique individual. But what makes us unique is not our appearance, achievements or level intellectual development, namely the position in society that we decided to take. A person may be career-oriented, starting a family, or gaining financial independence. This is not so important, each of us has our own desires, and it is necessary, simply necessary, to make them come true.

Life can turn out differently; society has its own laws and orders. If a person differs from the norm, he is immediately enrolled in the army of “strange” people and is bypassed. Left alone with reality without support and approval, a person can break down, give up his plans and will do as the public demands of him. But you should never shift responsibility for your happiness onto someone else. Having support under your feet, an unshakable inner core, everyone is able to achieve what they want. And this core is nothing more than a life motto.

Never, under any circumstances, should a person neglect himself, his aspirations and dreams. Even if they don’t understand him, don’t recognize him, avoid him, even if the whole world turns against him, he must survive. The goal achieved will definitely be worth the effort. Your life motto or credo may sound different, but only it can give confidence, strength and inspiration.

If you want to succeed, continue to believe in yourself even when no one believes in you (Karl Marx).

Become a better person and understand who you are before you meet someone new and hope that they will understand (Gabriel García Márquez).

If you feel like you're giving up, remember why you were holding on before (Jared Leto).

Everything is in our hands, so we can’t give them up (Coco Chanel).

We are people, and not ships at all, but even we need to have guidelines in life. Without them, a person is simply a biological organism, programmed to study, work and create a family. A faceless substance that tramples the ground aimlessly.

Psychology often says that forgotten desires begin to smolder over time. They seem to turn into a toxic substance that corrodes the mind. And then a person turns into a real monster who can kill, destroy, betray. If this is not so, then why are there so many crimes being committed in the world?!

By giving up his desires, a person will not die, but will he live?! People don't really die when their body stops functioning; they gradually die throughout their lives. From unfulfilled promises, forgotten desires, indifference to one’s fate. And only life mottos help to remain calm and force a person to fight for his existence. They are like a lifeline. When in this unstable world there is no one else to rely on, a person can only turn to words for help. Words that have power.